From Chaos to Calm: How a Wedding Coordinator Guides your Big Day
- Shannon Shivers
- Feb 1
- 4 min read

Congratulations on your engagement! 💍 Now, as you start planning your dream wedding, you might be wondering, “Do I really need a wedding coordinator?” If you're like many couples, you want everything to be perfect on your big day, but you also don’t want to feel overwhelmed with all the details. That’s where a wedding coordinator comes in.
In this post, let me walk you through the different stages of what a Month-of / Day-of Wedding Coordinator does, and the amazing value they bring to your wedding experience.
What Does a Wedding Coordinator Do?
A wedding coordinator is there to help you bring your vision to life while making sure everything runs smoothly. Think of them as your calming, problem-solving partner throughout your big day. Here’s how they help:
1. Pre-Wedding Prep
Even if you’ve done all the planning, the month before your wedding can still feel like a whirlwind. Your coordinator steps in during the final stretch to help tie up loose ends. They’ll:
Confirm details with your vendors (making sure everyone is on the same page)
Help create a wedding day timeline so everything flows seamlessly
Offer advice on any last-minute decisions and make sure you're feeling confident and ready
2. Wedding Day Coordination
When your wedding day finally arrives, the last thing you want to do is worry about the small details. That’s where your coordinator comes in! They’re your go-to person for anything that comes up, so you can focus on soaking in every moment. They’ll:
Manage the timeline, keeping everything on track (so no one’s rushing last minute!)
Be the point of contact for vendors, ensuring they arrive on time and execute everything as planned
Handle any unexpected situations (because let’s face it, sometimes things don’t go as planned, and your coordinator is there to handle it all!)
3. Post-Wedding Wrap-Up
After the big day, your coordinator will take care of all the finishing touches, such as:
Ensuring all personal items are packed and returned (hello, wedding gifts and decor!)
Making sure the venue is properly cleaned up
Why Should You Hire a Wedding Coordinator?
A wedding coordinator is more than just a “to-do list checker.” They’re there to reduce your stress, keep things running smoothly, and ensure that your day is as relaxed and enjoyable as possible. Here’s why they’re worth every penny:
Peace of Mind: You won’t have to worry about the details or troubleshoot problems on the fly.
Professional Experience: Coordinators know how to handle tricky situations and manage multiple moving parts.
You Get to Enjoy Your Day: Instead of running around managing things, you get to be present and focus on what truly matters—celebrating with your loved ones.
When Should You Reach Out to a Wedding Coordinator?
If you're considering a wedding coordinator, it’s best to reach out at least 6 months to a year before your wedding day. The earlier you book them, the better. Coordinators are often in high demand, especially during wedding season, so booking early ensures you get the right fit for your day.
Questions to Ask Before Booking Your Wedding Coordinator
Before committing to a coordinator, be sure to ask these important questions to ensure you're both on the same page:
What’s included in your services? Make sure you understand what tasks they’ll handle leading up to and on your wedding day and how may hours of coverage you will receive.
What’s your experience with weddings at our venue? If they’ve worked at your venue before, they’ll know the ins and outs and how to manage any specific needs.
What’s your communication style? It's important to know how you’ll stay in touch and how responsive they are to your needs.
How do you handle unexpected problems on the day of? This will give you peace of mind knowing they’re equipped to deal with any surprises.
Do Venues Require a Wedding Coordinator?
It’s also important to know that some venues require couples to hire a wedding coordinator. This is especially true for larger venues or venues with unique logistical needs. Coordinators help ensure that everything runs smoothly, making the venue’s job easier and reducing any potential stress for you. Be sure to check with your venue and see if they have any specific coordinator requirements before you start your search.
Conclusion
Hiring a wedding coordinator means you’ll have an expert guiding your wedding day with love and care, so you can focus on what matters most—your celebration. Your coordinator helps take the stress out of your big day, bringing everything together so you can just enjoy the ride. After all, your wedding day should be a time to bask in the love and joy that brought you to this moment, not worry about the details.
If you’re ready to have a calm, smooth wedding day, I’m here to help guide you through every step of the way. Reach out today to learn more about how we can work together to make your wedding day perfect.
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